A couple of weeks ago I mentioned that my Sex & Love column had found a home. Thanks to you guys and your trust in me (albeit with a grain of salt), Sex & Love will be appearing in Penthouse Magazine starting in October. It has been years since I have been a contributor to a monthly magazine… I used to write film reviews for Bikini magazine with my cousin Johnny. Anyway, my Penthouse Q&A column will consist mainly of answers to the questions I get here on 6767, so I would love and appreciate another batch of questions from you guys for the November issue. Some answers to the June 2nd post will appear in October. Of course, my responses are meant only as suggestions… I am not a licensed therapist or anything, at least, not yet! This is Sex & Love advice from a guy who has seen both failure and success in the relationship department… A little jaded, a little disillusioned, a little sarcastic yet very honest. Answers may be sincere, absurd, comical and sometimes flat out wrong. You’ll have to consider the source I suppose! Thank you in advance for your participation.
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Beautiful photo Dr Dave & congrats on the cool home for the column!
Would you consider excluding either the eye makeup or the funky facial hair before you give us tips on sex, because, seeing as how I already know exactly how to do what you think we don’t know how to do (there are millions of us who have had sex more times than you have), I might accidentally have sex with you.
Ok, forgive me for being dumb, but where do we post the questions?
博客主的文章不错啊，我会关注你，有空也来踩踩我的博客吧
Don’t change a thing Dave… The comment made this morning was from someone who obviously has absolutely no idea what a sexy beast looks like. You’re gorgeous. They are jealous.
Dave, you are smoking hot. How does a not so smoking hot girl like me get a guy like you? Congratulations on the new gig and good luck!
Sweet, ctrl-c ctrl v and get paid!
Ok on real question here!.
As a man, how to be in the stage of not caring and let go of jelousy?.
Hey Dave-
In my next relationship, a definite dealbreaker for me will be monogamy. I have been in many monogamous relationships, and I feel like they are somewhat boring in the long-term, so having an open relationship would be key to maintaining sexual interest without negative effects (i.e. cheating). Of course even though this is my honest position, I find it hard to approach the subject with every new girl I date, and many I don’t want to even ask for fear of losing them.
So Dave, with respect to your position on the subject (pro-open relationship) how do I attempt to make this shift in my life? Tips please! Thanks for the help.
Rob
P.s. I am a long-time listener to the show and for old-time’s sake am requesting 1 “autozone”, 1 “sports chalet” and 1 call to the LA Weekly on the next podcast! lolz
Hey dave!
Hey Dave
What do you think of one night stands?
And in what way is it different for you?
I have a question for your sex column… I keep trying to find the love of my life or at least a temporary love of my life but all I find are rock stars and abusive drug addicts.
I recently contracted herpes which makes it even harder to get laid, which is probably a good thing considering my sex life’s history. I think I should just stop having sex all together. Do you think this is safe?
THANKS DAVE 6767
DN- I remember the Bikini mag stuff….nice and go back to the old, old 6767. Here’s a question: What’s better for the love life…good looks or good guitar playing? I am trying to decide if I should dedicate my free time to the gym or more guitar lessons.
After listening to ur dialogue on oral sex on indie.. ” putting a load in her mouth” etc.. I am truly appalled that you would be given another platform to shout your mysogmist clearly woman bashing ideals of sex. God help any woman who has the “pleasure” of becoming ur sex toy. But it seems that you have found ur perfect home in such a magazine. God help us all.
I, on the other hand, am jealous of the woman in the photo…. What a great job she has! If you need a blonde for the next photo, count me in!!!!!!!!!!
Relationship versus sex: The relationship is over, ruined, we don’t get on, we don’t even like each other any more, but the sex is amazing, the best either of us have ever had. Keep on screwing or move on and leave it behind? It’s holding us both back – we’re not moving on with our lives, but still, the sex is amazing…
i like her boots why are shoes erotic why do they call them fuck me boots i do not know they are just shoes you wear them for protection…what is it with boots this is a dominatrix thing isn’t it dave? the word stiletto is derived from a sicilian sharp weapon used to pierce thine enemy very phallic conjectures though very phallic indeed the phallic fantasy penthouse very sexy
Oral herpes different to genital herpes,sure safe to have sex if you could be bothered and Create and Craft isn’t on T.V. Are all drug addicts abusive? Try going to some centre and listen to some teenager with long term learning difficulties trying to read the info for a relapse programme they want to attend, and then judge who’s vulnerable – MAYBE they watched about some rich Rockstar taking drugs and thought..hey thats cool! Ting ting! Hello? This is a free message…please listen carefully!
yes we shouldn’t emulate recovered drug addicts nor dead ones that just happen to be musicians even though they attempt to get kudos for it by writing books about it youth is vulnerable to overt suggestions from those they admire think of all the weird behaviours condoned by celebs us parents have to deal with…my daughter jasmine thought nicole richie a few years ago was a healthy bodyweight to aspire to i said no she is an iced up heroin addict that is not living on fresh nutritive foods and went into an anorexic bulimic stage for a few years…celebs twitter about megavitamin injections most kids will never be able to afford they have the means to procure cures for drug addictions and rectify damaged tissues that most cannot…you know they go to exclusive resort rehabs not jails with concrete floors that resemble auschwitz… ha you got to take it easy with the train wreck tattoos girls…there will be no carnage or going off the rails …i saw her tatt thought that is such a smackie thing to write on your hand deliberate sabotage let us attempt to keep society creative and sexual without the need for the drug induced haze let us aspire to straight up orgasms without the pretense of medication let us aspire to desires that work to create holistic health and a state of contentment isn’t that what good sex is supposed to culminate in …good creative efforts… good health choices…contentment…or is contentment a tad boring and not exciting enough…the world is a heavy place sometimes trains derail but i supppose if the person driving the train is aware and alert it is less likely to happen…this goes for all sexually transmitted disease and unplanned pregnancies stay alert and aware don’t suck dave’s cock haha:)
Hey Dave,
My question is this:
Are men intimidated by women who are as successful or as ambitious as them?
(background info: I’m a successful 22 year old graduate student with my own car, place and money. Guys who have ambitions never want to date me- it is only guys who live with their parents and seemingly strive to be unsuccessful. I have no problem with these guys but I have nothing in common with them! I’m not rich but I am independent and go for what I want career-wise. It seems like this is a turn-off! I have no interest in being someone’s mom. I need someone I can connect with- I don’t need their money etc….that being said, I’m not one of those girls who gets offended when a guy opens doors for them or pays for their meal.)
Any suggestions?
PS- I’ve never been in love. I’m always hearing “I can’t see myself with you in the long-term” because everyone seems to think everything has to be forever.
hey i thought that bit read thanks to you guys and your lust in me albeit with a grain of salt…it was a dyslexic momentary lapse trust you said ok…hehe…hey have you given up dark matter to do some research b4 october for your sex column…from a christian woman’s point of view you can tell penthouse magazine most women are looking for ‘forever’ even non committal ones in denial that’s just their defence from all the bricks in the wall they have met(thought you might like the pink floyd quote) it’s like that sole possession you can trust and place an infinite loyalty in knowing that the sex is more of a sacred dance you do 2getha rather than a spurting of semen just for the sake of releasing built up pressure in the glands…i’ve loved a lot of different guys since i was 16 monogamy is kind of a scary place jesus is more the guy you can dedicate that loyalty too knowing he can’t physically leave you hey come back prick you died on a cross for me get your sacrificial ass back here and he says i never left you bitch i’m a 4 eva dude…i always think that my life has been more of a learning curve because of the variety of lovers and mates i might be more boring if i’d been monogamous more closed minded and with narrow perceptions of the actual ”real” world i find women my age who have been married have been protected by their male counterpart and have a naive innocence and are more judgemental about sexual issues and the sex industries…the thought of getting married in your 20s and spending 60 years married and having that sexual experience with one person is beautiful if it was great but damn hell if it wasn’t…i said sole possession that seems terrible who wants to be possessed you know yet that is why twilight is making $$$$mills at box offices edward cullen will love bella forever cos he’s a vampire and willl make her one that is why juliet and romeo is hitting the theatres ballet companies cashing in on even death shall not part us same thing with christ you know nuns they are brides of christ eternal love it’s a potent ambition isn’t it ha…that is what makes the world go round all consuming love that your attention is not given to other idols god is jealous they say so are men and women usually your deepest affections are for them alone…penthouse is about sharing the breasts and vaginas around not about dedicating them to one person it’s not about love just the love of genitalia…i’m an artist i love the female body aesthetically i don’t wanna go down on one but i adore it as a form i hope you really do this column i’ll have to buy a penthouse if you do stare at strange women’s pussies while i read your wisdom ha
i hope jesus forgives me for calling him a prick he really is the most understanding guy i’ve met;)so patient 2000 years and he’s still kickin along…who has that kind of endurance
do you think it is wrong to get involved with an older men.The problem is that I am immature, and I fell in love,he is 34 and I am 18 years old.I am virgin,do you think it is a problem?.
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